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fei7000000 · Family Member

being left behind

jptrilogy · Family Member

people leave me behind too, i leave myself behind aswell.......not too sure what i mean by that but.........

Nubzor · Family Member

I know exactly what you both mean. I've been left behind, I've caused myself to be left behind, and so on.

It sucks, but i dont know what to do..

fei7000000 · Family Member

(i just figured it kind fits in here) worst thing in the world. the guy i've like finnally admitted to everyone hes bi...but he likes another guy

Come Forth And Multiply · ADMINISTRATOR

you know what? i think you 3 should get together and do some serious soul-sharing. you all have a lot more in common than you think. you can be eachother's support group.

fei7000000 · Family Member

maybe your right, any one else up for it?

Nubzor · Family Member

Sucks that we're all from different parts of the country!

jptrilogy · Family Member

yea, we could do that, except we do live in different places

bluegreenAirplane · Veteran Member

Nubzor wrote:

I've caused myself to be left behind

I'm so glad you said that. I can relate completely, sometimes I just give up on remaining connected with someone or I try to stop a friendship before one even starts. I'm trying to work on that though.

I hate when I meet a beautiful, fun, awesome person but I know that after that day I'll probably never see them again.

Come Forth And Multiply · ADMINISTRATOR

guys...guys... that's the beauty of the internet. it doesn't matter if you're a million miles away from each other. yu can still discuss things and be there for each other. isn't that what this is all about?

jptrilogy · Family Member

Come Forth And Multiply wrote:

guys...guys... that's the beauty of the internet. it doesn't matter if you're a million miles away from each other. yu can still discuss things and be there for each other. isn't that what this is all about?

that's true.

I'm so glad you said that. I can relate completely, sometimes I just give up on remaining connected with someone or I try to stop a friendship before one even starts. I'm trying to work on that though.

I hate when I meet a beautiful, fun, awesome person but I know that after that day I'll probably never see them again.

i know what you mean too. i haven't contacted most of my old friends from high school in awhile. idk why, because i WANT to, i just...don't. and i know what the other things are like too: you start being friends with someone, but get stuck at that point where you're not really friends yet, just aquaintances, or you don't make it past the getting to know each other part.

Come Forth And Multiply · ADMINISTRATOR

you know... when i'm 18, i'm going to play the lotto every time it happens. i'll keep investing money in it, keep marking my picks... sometimes i might get 1 or 2 numbers out of 6... maybe sometimes i'll get 3 or 4... or none. but regardless of how close or how far away i am from winning the jackpot and getting it all, i'm still going to keep playing and in the meantime, accept what i get. get it? biggrin

fei7000000 · Family Member

actually, i did understand that. wow...im usually slow too.i guess i understand complecated(sp?) metaphores more than just saying it flat out.

Come Forth And Multiply · ADMINISTRATOR

fei7000000 · Family Member

thank you erik. from now on, use complicated metaphors on me or else my smartness won''t kick in and i'll be lost

Nubzor · Family Member

I hate when I meet a beautiful, fun, awesome person but I know that after that day I'll probably never see them again.

Rach related to what I said, now I'm relating to what you she said! Wow...I know exactly what you mean. Or like, if I do some type of "program" of some sort that only lasts for a week, I actually get sad when the week ends because I know that I will never get to see those people again. For example, 2 summers ago I had to volunteer for CI hours and I helped teach a summer-program for kids (post 5th-7th grade) and like....at the end of the week I was actually sad to leave because I knew that I would never see those kids again.

Pathetic david!

jptrilogy · Family Member

here's a bulletin from myspace that kind of relates to this(also, it could be talking about if someone you know passed away):

"It's sad when people you know, became people you knew... And when you can walk right past someone that at one point in your life was a big part of your life... And how you used to be able to talk to them for hours about the little nothings in life... and now you can barely look at them.... It's funny how many people have posted this. Guess we're all in the same boat, missing someone.. be honest...if you really miss someone, a friend, a lover, or a family member right now...& can't get them off your mind...then repost this titled as R.I.P."

EDIT:
ok, so i didnt feel like double posting and i couldnt think of anywhere else to post this so it will just be in an edit. before i start, i'm going to refer to people by the 1st letter of their last name, so this might get alittle confusing.
ok, so person C was/is my best friend from high school(he really has nothing to do with this story) and his ex-girlfriend, person A(who he's still friends with) has just become friends with person H, a girl that i've liked for 2 1/2 years(and he himself is even friends with her now). now, i have absolutely no problem with that, but it makes me depressed to think that if this year was my senior year, that i wouldve become better friends with person H, and had a chance to go out with her(especially since i live near her). add to that the fact that person H's ex-boyfriend was the friend of person S(the 1st guy i've actually liked), and that really makes me confused/depressed/mad at myself, etc.......ok, story over, i just needed to get that out and would much appreciate any responses to it.

-- Edited by jptrilogy at 13:14, 2008-04-16

-- Edited by jptrilogy at 17:36, 2009-02-10

fei7000000 · Family Member

ok, i just needed some place to rant. so here it goes. i hate it when you tell people you feel like you're being left behind because they basically only have you there for a third wheel yet they continue to constantly do it. i hate how if you tell someone all your problems they never shut up about there own no matter how much you need someone, even if its just for seconds. i hate how i have to be there for my friends for all of there problems but during the very few times i actually need them to be there they aren't, they're still bitching about there own problems and not even ****ing caring. and no matter how much i tell them im feeling left out they really don't care and just keep going on leaving me out.

Come Forth And Multiply · ADMINISTRATOR

yeah... it's a remarkable human trait: selfishness!

the kalifornia kid · Veteran Member

its really odd you do not relize how much a good friend is until there gone. i think thats why we as humans need to be among others.